Sunday, May 13, 2007

Mother's Day Memories

Five years ago, I received a Mother's Day gift from Amanda and Jamie in the form of a small fig tree. I don't believe the tree was more than two feet tall and fit very nicely in my living room next to the TV. When it got to be too big for the living room, I moved it into the dining room during the winter where it took up a good part of one corner while in the summer I would wheel it outside and let it sun on the front porch until it got to be too cold when I would haul it back into the house.

Last year at the end of the summer I came to the sad conclusion that there was no way this no-longer-small fig tree was going to fit back in the dining room without having taken over the entire corner and then some. But it was a beloved Mother's Day gift and I didn't want to just get rid of it either. What to do? What to do?

Then it dawned on me that at the company where I work, the entrance lobby has very high cathedral ceilings and a good number of other plants already taking up residence so why couldn't my beloved fig tree take up a spot next to them? Besides, there are times when it seems like I spend more time at work than I do at home so I'd still be able to see my tree from time to time while it thrived and grew in the perfect environment. I made a few inquiries, was given the go-ahead, and a helpful friend bundled the tree into the back of his truck and delivered it to the lobby where it took up its spot next to several other semi-large indoor trees.

Today being Mother's Day and me being at work, it seemed like the perfect time to go down and check on my gift of many years ago so I descended the stairs from dispatch down to the lobby and "visited" with my tree for a bit. As I stood there and looked at how much the tree had grown over the years, I reflected on how much the givers of that gift have grown, too. Amanda will turn 15 in just a little over a month and her sister Jamie will then take her place as the 14-year old in the family a little over a month after that. I haven't quite figured out how they have both gotten to be in their mid-teens yet but I do know that they got there very quickly!

Just as the fig tree grew taller over the years (now close to 6 feet tall), Amanda also shot up to 5'10" and, though I haven't seen her since last summer, Jamie tells me that she has gained some height, too (she's always been the short one in the family). I will probably barely recognize her when she steps off the plane on June 6th for her summer visit.

A lot has changed since that small fig tree was given to me for a Mother's Day five years ago but to me those years have gone by in the blink of an eye. I shudder to think how quickly the next five years will fly by and how much will have changed by then.

To all the Moms out there - I hope that you had a fantastic day and that you have many happy memories to carry into the future with you; a future that I am sure will come way too soon for most of our likings.


  1. Wow, what a great story of love and growth. Thanks for sharing what you are remembering so vividly today. Happy Mother's Day.

  2. Same height as a door frame! That's a lot of loving memories.
    Best wishes

  3. What a wonderful living tribute to your role as Mom and how fitting that it's growth symbolizes the growth of Amanda and Jamie.

  4. What a lovely gift for you and so good that you have found your Fig tree the perfect home where you can watch it grow like your children.

    I hope you had a wonderful Mother's Day. x

  5. What a nice post, Linda. I had no idea you kept your fig tree in the lobby - but then again, I have no reason to visit that part of the building. For me, the world ends @ the door leading from the timeclock to the hallway running past the Ops Director's and QA Director's offices. I'll make it a point to go see it, now that I know how much it means to you.

    Moms like you make the world go 'round! A belated "Happy Mothers' Day" to you, my friend!

  6. lovely story honey, and it is beautiful!

    smiles, bee

  7. that's a beautiful post!
    and how cool that you get to not only still enjoy your gift, but you get to share it with everyone you work with!

  8. Plant gifts are fascinating as we can see how they've grown since we had them.

  9. You are so good with words. I love how you compared the growth of the tree to your daughters. Glad it has a new home!

  10. Lovely post indeed! did i read correctly that flight is booked?

  11. The analogy of the fig tree to your girls - really good! Even down to the "moving the tree" -as compared to kids moving upward in school and then out - to college, to work, to their own lives, etc. You did a great job on this one!

  12. Happy Belated Mother's Day. Lovely tree and sweet gift.


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